Awe: Take some time to slow down

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             Did you watch the sun rise this morning?

             How about inhale a deep breath of fresh air?

             When did you last see a child’s eyes light up in awe?

             Has it been a while since you slowed down and noticed the little things?

             It has for me. I am probably the guiltiest of all when it comes to rushing through life. I juggle way too many things at once, always saying yes and never relaxing.

             I do not know if I am like this because I like being in control of everything that affects me or because I do not want to waste one moment of my life.

Loyalty 2: A dog's best friend

                Last week, I wrote about loyalty and used, “Dogs sleeping at the foot of their masters’ beds” to exemplify this quality.

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                But what about a dog staying by the side of another dog that lay injured in the middle of a California highway?

                Watching the morning news on CBS today, Charlie Rose reported on a viral video taken by a man who found a stray black Labrador that would not leave the side of a yellow Labrador that had been hit by a car.

                Although the yellow Lab unfortunately died, the black Lab, eventually named Grace because of her actions, would not budge even as cars whizzed by and passersby stopped to help the poor dog.

Loyalty: Define your actions

                Actions define loyalty.

                Children running into the open arms of their parents.

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                Dogs sleeping at the foot of their masters’ beds.

                Young wives waiting at airport terminals for their husbands to return home.

                Each act shows a specific trait: trust, friendship or love.

   Loyalty is a sense of trust.

   Every vacation, I drive six hours across 314 miles of New York State to see my family. The process of going home never changes.

Spontaneity: A chance to learn something

In the last two weekends, I have driven 2,556 miles, spent 44 hours in the car, slept for a total of 20 hours, traveled through eight states and finished no homework.

What a good looking crew!
PNC Arena in Raleigh, N.C.

I spent the other hours covering the St. Bonaventure University men's and women's basketball teams throughout their phenomenal and historical NCAA journeys.

If you know me at all, you know I would never say yes to an unexpected trip to Nashville, Tenn. three days beforehand. And I would never say yes to a trip to Raleigh, N.C. that next weekend.

Altruism: Make a difference after death

Will you make a difference after death?

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                More than 14,000 Americans did by becoming organ donors last year.

As of March 2012, more than 110,000 patients currently wait for organ transplants.

Last year, less than 30,000 patients on the waiting list received organs.

Risk: Try some green eggs and ham

          Roses are red,

          Violets are blue,

          I can’t rhyme,

          How about you?

          Even though my rhyming skills may not be superb, I know of a man who’s made a life out of it.

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          Dr. Seuss.
          The quirky names, the rhythmic beat of the sentences, the colorful drawings and the twisting tales appeal to children, teaching them how to read while enjoying it at the same time.

Pride: What is a Bonnie?

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          Coming in as a freshman to St. Bonaventure, I received a t-shirt with “What is a Bonnie?” written across the back. For weeks before starting my first year at college, I wore that shirt to let others know where I was going to school.

          I wasn't wearing it because I was proud of SBU or because I wanted people to be jealous of where I was going. I just wanted people to know where the next part of my journey would be taking me.

          I can't even begin to count how many people asked me throughout those few weeks what a Bonnie was.

          Every time someone asked, I never had an answer.

          Well, today, after the men's basketball team completed their phenemonal basketball season, I do.