Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Live: Make a bucket list


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               What’s the best way to get the most out of your life and live for each and every moment?
                Make a bucket list and stick to it.
                No, these lists are not just for the elderly dying of cancer or some incurable disease like Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson in the movie The Bucket List. These lists are for anyone who wants to be able to look back at the end of their life and be surprised at all they accomplished.



                I began my bucket list after, ironically, watching The Bucket List (Sappy movies like that motivate me).
It started off as a list of inconsequential accomplishments, making at least a 3.0 grade point average every semester, creating lifelong friendships and graduating from college.
I knew I would accomplish all of these because of who I am.
But putting other dreams on my list a bit more “out there” made me worry I might not make them happen.
          
I worried I would fail at life, but I eventually figured that having something to achieve and work towards meant more than not striving in life. So I added new things: riding a camel, studying at Oxford University, traveling to Africa, making a difference and falling in love.
           I started my bucket list around the age of 15 or 16.
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           Avery Canahuati started hers at five months old.
           Diagnosed with Type 1 spinal muscular atrophy (SMA) at birth, doctors gave Avery 18 months to live.
           Avery’s parents, Laura and Mike, wanted to make the best of what time Avery had on Earth so they created a blog to capture each moment and accomplishment.
            The blog is written from Avery’s perspective complete with pictures of each milestone.
            What started as a way for Avery’s family to remember each moment soon became a public affair with the media publicizing the blog.
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             As of 9:30 p.m. on Monday, April 30, Avery’s blog had over 2.1 million views with approximately two and a half views coming in each second, according to her blog.
             Avery’s parents said in an ABC News story that they hope Avery’s blog promotes awareness of SMA, but it has done more than that.
              Avery’s blog inspires viewers to not only appreciate every minute they have but also motivates them to create bucket lists so they can get the most out of their lives.
               I know my bucket list has changed me. Looking back on the past four or five years, I have already traveled to Europe, studied at Oxford, gotten into a dual-degree graduate program and made a difference. I achieved things I never expected to and done things I never thought I would at this age.
                You do not have to be 91 to make a list of things you want to do. Being able to reflect back on it during certain points in your life might make you see how blessed you are or how much you have really done.
                Don’t let age define when you look back your life and how you live it.
   Make a bucket list and accomplish everything you have ever wanted to.
                UPDATE:
                After I posted this Tuesday morning, I read that Avery had passed away on Monday, her father, Mike, had written on her blog Tuesday afternoon. He said she died of pulmonary complications around 3.
                Avery may have left her family sooner than they had hoped, but her memory and impact on viewers has not changed. If anything, this just shows how quickly our lives can be taken from us. The advice still stands - start a bucket list whenever you want ... it is never too soon to begin living.

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